Do you want the cell phone number of a beautiful Indian girl? Does not everyone? Many guys dream is to simply sit back, find the mobile number of an Indian girl and start to SMS her and see if something works. What is the issue?
The issue is women make you work for them, especially from a traditional country like India. It is the female nature to build trust and make you wait. Therefore, mobile phones, the new virtual relationship venue, is not always quick and easy. The purpose of this post is to give you some ideas one way or another to get Indian girls mobile numbers for friendship.
If you really want to try to find out where and how here are some ideas. I will give you one very good website for you to explore in this regard, but first read my view on telecommunication dating.Indian women and their relationship with their cell phone
I teach languages. I can not say that my female students are better with verbal communication, but I can say, they do like to talk more in class. I think this is because their brains have more connections in the verbal and audio centers than men. Why? Because they often are the ones responsible for transmitting language and speech to their children. Hence the term mother tongue.
What does this have to do with getting mobile numbers from a Bangalore girl? Everything. Women like verbal communication in the same way men like surfing the Internet. Women like to talk and love cell phones. Men do not talk as much and prefer to think about the next steps and strategies in life and think in abstract way. Men use phones for business, unless then are talking to a lady of course. Men are simply not as chatty. For example, I do not even own a cell phone, I just use a Skype. On the other hand, how often are you driving along and you see a girl talking her mobile walking down the street?
Indian women secretly do not mind using the telephone for a mysterious connection with some guy. The telephone is a natural invention for them. I have had women friends say they had this happen to them. Some random guy sends them and SMS and they reply innocently or naively. They build a rapport and then even chat. However, I have never heard of two people really meeting this way. Maybe they do not confess.
I have had guy friends find numbers of women and begin to SMS them under the pretense of a wrong number and strike up a rapport. I think at the end of the day women will not accept this as a reasonable way to meet a long-term partner, but maybe. I wrote a similar article here on Pakistani girls mobile numbers
There are mobile phone dating sites. I have even thought of starting one, but I think it would be too much work, and not my style. I do not have any dating sites by the way. Besides not being my style, you would have to moderate thousands of cell phone no from Indian girls and guys to make sure they are legitimate. I use to even worked for a company that did something like this, that is mobile phone dating and profile moderation for dating sites. I like real better than virtual.
Getting mobile numbers in person is best and do not make it a virtual relationship
The best way to get a girls from Kolkata mobile numbers (for example) is go there and meet them in person. Meet them in dance class, or take yoga or a literature class, or meet them on the street by talking to them. Then ask them for their phone number and then arrange a date at a coffee shop.
If you can get their number call them up on the phone and directly ask for the date- read how I asked for e-mail when I should have asked for a phone number.
Many times with girls I tried to get to know I use to have great courage and be able to chat them up on the street. I would charm them and then ask for e-mail. What am I crazy? I asked for their e-mail, not their phone number. Why did I do this? The reason is I am on the Internet a lot, working and writing e-mails. I though this was a better way to build a rapport. But this was a huge mistakes, I learned this latter. If I had the girl laughing and chatting with me in person, why would I regress to some virtual relationship? I do not know, maybe I am a geek or think girls do not want to really date me. They did not like it at all. They wanted a call on the phone and a date, not weeks of Internet banter, no matter how witty.
In a word, I blew it. I could have called them but I e-mailed them.
Ways to get mobile phone numbers from Indian girls for friendship
I think a lot of Indian guys are Internet geeks and shy, like me and would rather find a sms a girl or find them virtually. This is OK but remember this is a guys way not a female way. Whether they are Kerala girls or Chennai girls instead of finding their mobile phone number on the Internet, go to these places in India and meet them in a coffee shop or a bookstore.
Then after chatting them up, ask them something like this:
‘Would you be terribly offended if you meet sometime on a cordial basis.’ Say those exact words. Say them with a smile. It sounds cheesy but it works. If they say ‘well, uhm, I do not know you’… tell them: ‘please just say maybe’. If they like you they will give you a ‘maybe’ and that is really a yes. They will give you their telephone number, then you make them wait. Do not SMS them.
Oh, yes you better believe they will be checking their text messages and voice message, every ten minutes, wondering. Read my lips, make them wait. Then when you are ready, call them. Make the telephone conversation up beat, light and breezy. Suggest a date, a walk in the park, for example. After that you are on your own. But if you did this, just like I said you will have no problem getting a date.
Indian girls mobile numbers for friendship
- Therefore, my point is the mobile phone is a tool, not an end in itself. I know man, I have been there myself, working long hours and no way to meet girls other than with technology. Go national culture and travel site and consider a trip. In incredible India and you will meet women for friendship and communication and come back with a phone book full of numbers and you might even be an expert on local area codes.
- If you really still want to try use Foursquare. It is social networking with your mobile phone and if you fine an Indian city you can socialize with Indian girls on your mobile phone. List of numbers it is not, but a very good website it is. It is getting popular in Asia.
Did you really think I would recommend any less than legitimate ways of getting cell phone number from girls from Delhi. If you are looking to call a girl in Mumbai it is better you know here in person first.
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